Ana muses about her recent mini-vacation.
Two weeks ago, my hubby drove to a farming conference in Tennessee, a major expedition from winter in northern Minnesota. I stayed home and tended the cows, six water-pipes-will-burst-if-they-go-out heaters, and two spoiled house cats. I was on vacation.
Don't misunderstand. I love the man. I enjoy cooking his breakfast and don't mind bunching his socks. But not having to share the television remote was sheer bliss.
I turned the channel to Hallmark and indulged in their Valentine's Day movie marathon. Romance stories about professional women clashing with fairly good looking ex-boyfriends and sparring with really good looking career-focused men.
One was set in a California winery. Another in a Montana ski resort town. A third in a bed and breakfast in Vermont. An in-debt-with-time-running-out Wyoming ranch. Sumptuous locations.
All the secondary characters were there. The best friend confidant who tells her what she doesn't want to hear: that the hero who pisses her off is her perfect partner. The supportive and long-suffering parents. The long-distance boss who doesn't care how much she wants to come back to the city. Complete the assignment or look for another job. The crabby/nosy neighbor who finds fault at every turn.
Immersed in a romance atmosphere, free of distractions, I worked on my WIP, book 2 of the Prairie Hearts series. If I'd gone someplace sunny and warm, I probably wouldn't have written a word.
I'll take holed up alone any day, but don't tell my hubby. He's still apologizing for leaving me with all the chores.
Sometimes those stay-cations with no distractions can be heavenly. I'm sure you missed your hubby, but there's definitely something to be said for alone time, too!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely, Debra.
ReplyDeleteI love your term, stay-cations!
As much as I love my husband, I do enjoy the times when he travels and I have some time to myself--as long as he doesn't stay away too long! :)
ReplyDeleteExactly, Jen!
DeleteI have the opposite situation - too much time on my own, so I often waste it!
ReplyDeleteI hear you, Paula. Butt in chair seems easier when solo time is precious.
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