What else would I say L is for when I’ve been writing
love stories for nearly forty years? There are lots of songs about love – Love
is in the air, Love is all around, are two of my favourites. To me writing a
love story is writing about what goes on every day of our lives. It’s part of
human nature.
What is interesting is that I can let my imagination
run riot. I create the characters, I create their situations, and I work out
their problems for them. Or do I?
Very often the characters tell me what is going on. I sometimes
shake my head in amazement and think, where did that come from? It’s not what I
planned. So you see love happens. I don’t plan for my characters to fall in
love (of course I know they will - eventually) Nor do I think to myself, it’s
about time I put a love scene in here. Everything happens when the time is
right, when the characters dictate it is right.
The build up to such scenes is probably more important
than the scene itself. The emotions each character feels has been growing
inside them for maybe the whole of the book up until this point. They may not
have been aware of it but deep down inside something was happening. All it took
was one trigger for both hero and heroine to give in to those feelings.
Nor does a love scene have to be the actual physical
act. Closeness. Just being held by the person you have feelings for can be just
as intense. Kissing is sometimes all that is needed. In the book I’m currently
writing it took a long, long time for my characters to get together
emotionally. And even then it wasn’t love they felt. Not true love. That came
later, much later.
My belief is that there is no such thing as love at
first sight. What do you think?
My own thoughts are that there can be lust at first sight (or at least physical attraction or the indefinable 'chemistry'). Real love can grow from that (or not, as the case may be!) as people get to know, respect and trust each other.
ReplyDeleteI know, Paula. People talk about love at first sight but it cannot truly happen. You need to get to know a person well to be able to declare that you are in love.
DeleteI agree with Paula. I don't think I can believe love at first sight, although the idea might be nice.
ReplyDeleteYes, Jennifer, the idea is nice but it probably only happens in films (or books)
DeleteI don't know about love at first sight, but I do believe in 'like' at first sight, and definitely in 'lust' at first sight. But I think love can quickly happen after that.
ReplyDeleteI definitely believe in love at first sight. It happened to me.
ReplyDeleteI also believe love can blossom over time.
That's wonderful, Ana. I now have faith in love at first sight.
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